Anne and Eric are happily married, and they generally spend their life together in harmony. But recently, things went a little differently. This is what happened:
“After a very demanding day at work, Anne returned home and found Eric already busy preparing dinner. This would be a tasty meal and Eric was expectantly looking forward to Anne’s excitement. But unfortunately, the timing was a bit off.
The words “Oh how wonderful, you are cooking for us – that’s great!” didn’t come fast enough.
Or, “You don’t even care that I’m preparing this for you!” was said too soon.
No one knows anymore what was said and who said it. Within seconds, a heated exchange developed between the two, which we will not recount in detail here. Eric left the kitchen, but unexpectedly returned and had something unusual on his mind.
Eric: “I will show you something now – I will show you just how you feel!”
Eric: “I was at Jutta Höch-Corona’s office earlier and brought back a set of the Gefühlsmonster cards.”
Anne was surprised, but eventually followed him to the living room table.
Looking through the set of cards, Eric put several cards on the table:
Eric: “You feel like this [No. 6] and like this [No. 13] and you probably also feel this way [No. 22].”
There was silence.
Eric: “Okay, so now show me how I feel.”
There it was again, the same tone of voice – demanding and expectant. But the outcome was different this time.
Anne: “There’s something missing here.”
Anne thumbed through the stack of cards and adds [No. 16] .
Eric swallows hard.
Anne: “And you feel like this [No. 16] and like this [No. 1]. And I’m guessing you probably also feel this way [No. 4].”
Eric: “Yes! And like this, too [No. 22].”
Both sit quietly over the images of frustration and sadness spread out in front of them.
Eric: “Well, this is going to be a fine evening, isn’t it.”
Both look at each other, and suddenly burst out laughing. The rest of the evening took a pleasant turn, and we will leave the rest to your imagination.”
Author: Jens Winter